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Non-Europeans
What is consent
Mutual
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- Age
of Consent
- The age when you can make decisions for yourself where by if you
do not want to do something, you say NO!
This is the age that you can accept responsibility to explore your
sexual identity and discover what your 'dick' likes, this also implies
the ability to take responsibility for your actions.
In some countries they like to declare one age of consent for
prosecution (e.g. execution in the Gas Chamber) and one age for sexual
freedom and voting.
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Europeans:
- In most European countries the age of consent is now equal for
both gay and heterosexuals. This age maybe anywhere between 12 and 18.
If you are old enough to use a computer, you are probably old enough
to view this site, just be a bit discrete if under the age of 18.
Parents are generally protective of their Children and fear that their
are dangers on the net - education is the best defence against such
dangers. This takes the opposite view hiding from uncomfortable
issues and banning everything.This site will be taking further
safeguard to protect its members. To get an idea of the kind of access
you may require, please look at UEBER18
http://www.ueber18.de
- Non-Europeans
I may not know the Age of Consent in your state or country.
However taking the guide line that you can die for your country or
Vote - this implies that at that age you are considered legally
responsible for you actions. If you are in a free country,
then if they can take legal action against you then you are old
enough to look.
- What
is Consent ?
If you are in a State/Country which has some wacky
law based on religion, then I would ask you would limit the
sexual details to personal conversations. It might also be in your
best interest not to be to active on this site, assuming you do not
get the Error 403 : Profanity Error. Alternatively you might
just be blocked by a Proxy server.
This would be typical if you were connecting from Work or School.
Where the net connection is not for personal use, but as defined by
the service owner having an alternative agenda to yourself;
bandwidth/capacity usage, your moral welfare, censorship paranoia etc.
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Mutual Consent
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- The consent of both parties is of
vital importance in any sexual encounter, but the issue seems more
pronounced in SM because many of the activities are those that are
widely seen as unpleasant and undesirable in everyday life. Many
SMers have therefore devised particularly techniques for managing
consent.
Also see
http://www.queernet.org/deviant/ssethics.htm#Consent
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Pandering
Offensive
Obscenity
Homophobia
Police are planning to hack into personal eMail and Internet details
after brokering a deal with service providers.
This allows them to gain access to Britain's 8 Million computer
users. Tapping into eMail does not need permission from a judge or the
Home Office as would telephone tapping or postal interception.
www.pgp.com
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Note:
- This site does
not endorse
prostitution, pandering, paedophilia,
the abuse of animals or humans, non consenting behaviour.
Any such material is barred and would be removed
once found.
- Pandering:
- "Gratification or indulgence of coarse desires"
- this seems to be one of those US things.
This seems a bit to vague, or to mean anything you want it to mean,
one of those useful repressive laws.
Not like one is playing with 'loose' morals, nor preying on the
vulnerable.
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- Offensive:
- If you find this subject matter
objectionable, are fucked up about sex freedom and diversity, then you
should leave this domain at once, as it does not get any 'better',
you have been warned!
If you continue to stay here and still proclaim that you are offended,
it is taken to mean that you have repressed sexual interests that this
site satisfies.
"Me thinks he protests too much..."
Which means to say that if you were not
sexually fucked up (and no one knew) you would be doing all that you
see here.
Consider how offensive Heterosexual sex is to a Gay person, we don't
go around trying to ban it !
The thought of putting a penis into a vagina- err yuck....
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Obscenity and Pornography
- This can be anything what you want it
to be.
Where the motto "Don't like it - Don't Buy it"
is ignored.
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- If you are turned on by cars (or
unnaturally fast bikes :) , the "Lotus Car" brochure could be porn.
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- Porn is whatever the authorities say
it, your parents or your Government.
- Porn is scary, if you are scared of
sex; sexual prowess, sexual failure.
It is not good enough to abstain from it yourself, to cover-up your
own inadequacies, you have to make every one the same as yourself -
only then do you feel secure, and even then there is that itch inside
"what are they doing in private", so than you get scared about their
thoughts, want to ban encryption, because of the "red under the bed"
fear that they might not be 'one of us'.
All pretty sad really.
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- Homophobia
- The fear that you might be gay yourself
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A form of xenophobia
where you are scared or have an
irrational or discomfort with those that are different from yourself.
After they have gone through all the excuses, its against the law, God
(or anybody else) says its wrong or unnatural, the problem is not with
the gay person, its the homophobe.
Homophobes generally do not 'Cherish Diversity', only those with
internal security and flexibility are able to.
Normal people "don't give a fuck" one way or the other about gays etc,
they now what they like, and what we do is of no consequence to them -
when that is not the case, that is when they have a problem.
Legal rights and Equality does not get rid of these phobias,
education, mutual respect, integration and tolerance.
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This Organisation is a Special Interest Group
focused on all aspects on all things related to the SM role play
known as "Dog Training" which is related in its web pages.
It is more about furthering, that than pure sexual gratification.
This is why I am reluctant to have
general/non-discript sexual links or images.
There are many aspects of SM that are not relevant to Dog Training, so
they would not be found here.
I have no desire to 'dilute' the site with (horny though it may be)
general non-focused SM images. For as much fun as being bound up in a
leather Sleep Sack is, (and they are great) it is not very doggy, so you
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If you find the above constraint
objectionable or an affront to your human or civil rights, remember this
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Sado Masochism or more accurately
Sexual Magic is a much misunderstood topic
and suffers from having a bad press.
Plenty of people you don't know what the fuck they are talking about
come out with "I'll give you SM, I'll knock you down and give you a
fucking Kicking".
At its core there is power play, and a sense of care for the other
person. The SM practionier has a vast abundance of skills that are just
not available to the non-SM practitioner. An SM Master learns a wide
breadth of sexual skills that totally blessed out the slave - you just
don't get that by fucking your partner in ten minuets (being generous
here). By way of contrast my personal longest SM scene was 27hours of
bliss.In all honestly a Master will
endeavour to learn and use every possible means to give pleasure to a
slave.
So what of Whips and Pain
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Many slaves have never been whipped or
flogged, but many have had (and welcome ) the firmness of a Master's
slap on the butt. The application of pain is a stimulus, a
technique to simulate the release of Endorphins (if you are a marathon
run you my be familiar with this high). Again unlike the tortures in
some police forces in the world, this is done with Full Consent, and is
part of a dialogue between Master and slave.
Pain can be from a simple love bite or
clothes peg on a nipple to being whipped to blood. The chemistry in the
body is the same. When done by someone who knows what they are doing
during preparation through to post-care this is all quite safe.
The problem is
EDUCATION or rather the lack of it. The best thing you could do
to learn more is to become a member of a leather or SM community and
talk to those with experience. Be careful of bullshit (keeping up
appearances) some people look the part, but don't know there
stuff, the quiet ones are often worth a look :)
In the UK there is SMGays, in the US there
are various Academies (academy) and is
Europe pretty much the same. Don't be shy to talk.
SM is not for everyone, many people have
hang-ups that will not allow them to be adventurous (parental
assault/violence, religious doctrine/dogma etc).
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Pain/Torture |
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Torture |
- Society says:
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- It is only ok to beat and hurt someone if it is without
their consent and if they don't want it.
Torture is common place in many countries that the west does
business with - but because they have oil, they are powerful, we are
not, so our morals slip away as conveniently as they came.
- "Thou Shalt not kill" - It is only ok
to execute someone but mercy-killing a cancer patient is wrong.
The principle it there to gives them the best life possible until
the last moment - but only the rich get that.
If you are a rich movie star who has killed his wife, you will
not be choking to death on Cyanide Gas, but if you are black and
poor, you will, after all your financial resources have been bled
dry on death row.
- This is where the State take the
choice of what affects you out of your hand.
Pain is, in broad terms, the body's
warning that something is wrong, but our pain
responses are very complex and it is very easy to produce the effect of
pain without
doing any real harm; the pain threshold, at which a stimulus crosses the
boundary
between intense sensation and pain, is also a grey area in terms of our
perception, and
can vary according to context.
Torture: Intense consenting stimulation
under the control of the Master, relief at his discretion.
Consider two cases of orgasm:
- Not stimulated:
Subject wanks till he comes. Just a method of emptying the balls.
Wanks every day or 5 times a day - soon the cums are meaningless,
merely holding false hope of feeling better after it.
- Stimulated:
Subject is in effective bondage. Is continually stimulated till all he
thinks about is coming, this fore play lasts for hours, he loves what
is happening to him, and if he was free he would have come hours ago,
but he isn't. His balls are almost bursting now, he is begging
to cum, will do anything to cum. When he is finally allowed to cum, he
plasters the ceiling with the content of his balls.
And for a woman, hours of multiple orgasms - something men can only
dream of.
Also see
http://www.queernet.org/deviant/bodyn-q.htm#Pain |
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Personal View Point |
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Curious.
I believe you punish me when I do not think the way you do, when I am
not becoming more like you.
You claim you
respect my individuality and yet your are frightened by it.
Seven of 9.
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Wacky Laws: You may be in a
Christian State that will gladly execute a minor in the Electric
Chair, (with no attention from the Humane Society ) than allow him to
have consenting sexual relations, and their may even be doubts as to if
he can vote. In some places there appears to be an age where you get
fucked by the system, and cannot do anything about it, not even Vote.
Christians and religion:
Sadly all that being a Christian means that it you can use it to support
all your inadequacies, hang-ups, bigotry and all that is negative. Seems
to be me that if you do not have a God that you take personal
responsibility, you ask yourself --
"Why is it that I have
a problem with Gays, SM (or whatever) that is different to my
belief of how life should be".
On recognising that God is in all living things, so that '"..love
each other as thought he were me" makes sense.
Generally follows the "Do as you would be done by" life style, often
containing 'Centred' people. Accepts that Gods love is unconditional.
Not untypical of the Metropolitan and Spiritualist's Churches or
Seikism.
Then there are the others, who declare that you will not go to
'Heaven' unless you join 'Their' Church (political party). As a group
they generally insecure and paranoid (if you are not for
us then you must be against us), make a big
point about "the devils work" (bit like "Reds under the bed" in times
past). These people also see no Moral dilemma about life being sacred
and letting the State take 20 minuets to choke a human on Cyanide gas in
the death chamber, do it to a dog and they will lock you up! They are
selective about the 'Holy Book' and are keen to apply it to others in
society (they are often personally excused) and may from the out side
seem sexually "fucked-up". Such people would only visit this site, to be
shocked, to see the work of the devil, and so these people have been
warned!
It saddens me that sex is such a taboo, that one can endorse the
sickest of societies, complaining about Religious persecution and
freedom, and yet be so keen to deny freedom to others. Freedom on our
terms. You can only be like US, Clones - There is but one God, but one
thought, but one law, what I say is right and so war begins...
It is especially sad when a
"religious nut" in the USA (could only happen there) considered 'Tinky
Winky' to be "promoting homosexuality" and a depraved life style
subverting his 'clean living' children - he would not approve of this
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